Listening to the Band Yes To Learn How To Succeed

I have success on the mind again (actually, I do that a lot). Now, before you stop reading this post because I'm about to talk quite a bit about music (not that that should be a surprise), realize that what I'm about to say applies to all businesses. So, read on.

I'm listening to "Yours Is No Disgrace" by Yes (which may actually be long enough to be the only song I hear while I write this post), and I got to thinking about what it is that allows Yes to keep going as a band. To the best of my knowledge, they haven't had a large selling album since the 1980's ("Big Generator"), yet they continue to sell out large concert venues every time they tour.

And it's not just them. Jimmy Buffet does that every time he tours. Rush does that (okay, so their albums still go gold when they come out). The Grateful Dead did it for years (and the remaining members are doing it again going out on tour as The Dead).

What do these bands all do that so few musicians do nowadays? They focus on the service aspect of their business. They use the hard product (recorded music and video) as a way to get people interested enough to experience the live performance. And they make a good living, touring every 4-10 years (depending on which band we're referring to).

How do you apply this to your business/work? Simple: realize that the finished product may be the attractor initially, but it will be the service and the experience that will bring people back over and over and over.

Next time you go to a restaurant where the average entree costs $20, $30, $50, $100 or more that their food costs are roughly the same as your average fast food chain. But the experience is so much better. And are you unhappy about paying more for that experience? Not if they do it well. It is soooooo worth it.

So, think about how you can bring a great experience to people doing business with you, whether it is becoming known as a person who keeps their word, a person of utmost integrity, or whether it is the little bonus things that you throw in with your finished product that people buy from you.

The service is a key. Go serve somebody. :-)

- John

Currently listening to:
Yours Is No Disgrace - Yes
Follow Me - P.O.D.
Wade Into The Water - Alabama 3 / A3 (thanks, Greg!)
I Need Love - Sam Phillips

The Timing of Success

I just read a short biography of Koko Taylor, "The Queen of Blues." She'll be missed.

One thing that struck me about that bio is the mention that her first big hit, "Wang Dang Doodle," became a major hit in 1966. It sold a million copies, a very big deal. She was born in 1928. That means she was 37 or 38 when she had the hit, much too old by the standard of our youth-infatuated culture here in the U.S.

This makes me think that if your work and your success is primarily based on chasing fads, possibly your success (if you have any) is dependent on those who are infatuated with youth (in the case of music) and newness. But, if you want long-term success, a career, if you will, then it makes more sense to follow your own star, and be yourself. In music terms, create your own sound, be yourself, and connect with like-minded people with whom your work resonates. They'll appreciate you for being you, instead of being infatuated by the facade and then moving on to the next pretty thing when they tire of the facade.

This also makes me think that age isn't a factor in real success (no matter how you measure it). You have areas of your life that you can be successful in regardless of your age, whether it is business, financially, relationships, artistically (some would say, in my case, autistically ;-).

Stop trying to be someone else. Be you, and connect with people who love you for being you; chances are, you'll love them for who they are, too. :-)

- John

Currently listening to:
Mudhouse - Black Eyed Sceva
Rome - F for Fake
Utopia - Tony Levin
Beautiful Sound - Newsboys

It's been a while...

Haven't posted in a while. Life has been a little crazy.

My beautiful wife had our fourth child a couple of weeks ago, so this post is more sleep-deprived than normal. In that light, here's two quotes I thought worth sharing and a link to something quite humorous.

And then a thought-provoking link. Not for those who agree with Henry Ford's quote about thinking is the hardest work that can be done, which is why so few do it, so they choose not to think. The last link will make you think.

The quotes:

“Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.” - Franz Kafka

Kafka. 'Nuff said.

“If you want knowledge, you must take part in the practice of changing reality. If you want to know the taste of a pear, you must change the pear by eating it yourself… All genuine knowledge originates in direct experience.” - Mao Tse-Tung

I disagree with Mao Tse-Tung on about everything philosophically, politically and religiously, but he got this right. Thanks to my friend, Blair Warren, for putting that quote in my hands.

The humorous link is here. BBspot slays me. Too funny.

The thought provoking link is here. You've been forewarned.

Oh, and I signed up for twitter. Not sure I'll use for anything other than to follow other people's tweets (kind of like I signed up for myspace so I can read the blogs of certain musicians that interest me), but, hey, I may post there occassionally. For those who care if I ever post there.

That's it for now. Desperately needing sleep.

- John

Currently listening to:
Dyer's Eve - Metallica (when they were still putting out music worth listening to, i.e. before whatever came out after the black album)
You Oughta Know - Alanis Morissette (IMO, the last track that Dave Navarro worked on after the first three Jane's Addiction cd's that's worth listening to)
A Charming Spell - Splashdown
Secret Journey - The Police
Miss Sarajevo - Passengers (U2 with Brian Eno) with Luciano Pavarrati (Possibly more brilliant than U2 and Eno's usual fare.)

And now for something completely different....

Since I'm on a roll of trying to offend people, here's a beautiful post by Drayton Bird that, I think, beautifully illustrates the deficiency in thinking that is so rampant these days.

That said, I laughed my "behind" off, and this should offend plenty of people, particularly journalists, politicians and the average person who gets all of their information from standard media outlets.

Frankly, I think that only leaves about half a dozen people in America over the age of 10 out of this group.

Now, I shall smugly walk along and continue my day, thank you. :-)

- John

P.S. And for a quick commentary on our education system and the adversarial relationship some "educators" have with parents, here's some food for thought. And people wonder why I don't trust a governmental penal... er... school system with the children of America.

Currently listening to:
Ziggy Stardust - David Bowie
Nothing - Ballydowse (oh, how I wish these folks would get back together and record some more stuff...)

Nine Inch Nails' new cd

You know, I loved Ghosts I-IV by Nine Inch Nails (that first Creative Commons licensed cd they released. Get the free download here). It's just brilliant, but I didn't really care for the one they just released (The Slip).

Personally, I prefer Trent Reznor's work when he's either doing ambient or industrial (I LOVE the first three NiN cd's, Pretty Hate Machine, Broken and The Downward Spiral), but when he veers toward 80's new wave like some of his later stuff, it just doesn't grab me.

Oh, well.

I think I'll go listen to David Bowie's Outside (his best cd in the last 20 years).

- John

Currently listening to:
The Middle - Great Northern (don't know who they are, but this song from the 2006 SXSW compilation is great)
Donostia: Dolor - Andres Segovia
No Time To Cry - The Sisters of Mercy
2 Ghosts I - Nine Inch Nails
In the Face of All of This - Jesus Jones
Problems - The Sex Pistols
Switchback (album version) - Celldweller

Nature or Nurture?

I read this interesting article about Alice Walker's (The Color Purple) daughter and their relationship.

It made me think about the whole nature vs nurture question in regards to gender.

Now, to be clear, I do believe that nurture makes a big difference in our lives (look at the repetitive life patterns of alcoholism, physical abuse, poverty, and even wealth and business ownership. I don't think that's genetic. That's learned behavior.). However, that being said, anyone who thinks that male and female infants don't have behavioral (and, at least later, cognitive) differences purely based on the fact that they are genetically male or female is either delusional or still taking lots of drugs from the '60's.

Nurture is important, but my sons are much more physically active and have been since birth than my daughter.

Which brings me back to the article. Is radical feminism (not equal pay for equal work, but the radical kind that says things like all sex is rape and heterosexual marriage is a form of enslavement (what's their position on homosexual marriage?)) nature or nurture? I assert that it is nurture. I look at my daughter and the things she has cared about from birth, and I read this article, and I can't help but come to that conclusion.

The denial of nature that is so popular today is simply Skinnerianism taken to a ludicrous extreme.

That'll irk some professor at some college somewhere.

- John

Currently listening to:
Disposal - The Crucified
GOD - The Crucified
Procreation Chick - Splashdown
Letters To Emily - Julie Miller
The Reasons - P.O.D.

More ways to irk people...

This is going to irk some people.

Whether you agree with it or not, though, it might be worth thinking through. You've got to study to show yourself approved. Don't believe this letter or someone teaching the opposite just because they said it (or wrote it). Look it up yourselves. Pray about it. Trust that God will give you wisdom when you ask for it (He said He will.).

Here you go.

- John

Currently listening to:
Kaliforn-Eye-A - P.O.D. featuring Mike Muir of Suicidal Tendencies (that should irk some people, too :-)

Thoughts on Education

This should irk some people. I've been busy with tax season (and recovering from it), so all this post will be is some links to interesting articles on education.

Warning, if you're pro-public schools, you'll hate every single one of these. Which also means you and I will disagree on education issues. Put simply, teaching my kids is my business, and it's not your right to dictate what they learn.

And, by the way, remember, everything you teach conveys your point of view. Objectivity is a fallacy for all human beings. And, if you're Vulcan, let me know. I'll manage your live appearances for a modest cut of the action.

Here are the links:
If we have the cojones to do this, we should. Lew Rockwell. 'Nuff said.

John Stossel on the California homeschooling court controversy.

This will irk some folks, but I think she has a point.

John Taylor Gatto. 'Nuff said.

More John Taylor Gatto. Always worth reading.

Interesting viewpoint, especially on what the real cause of teen angst is. I think he has a good point here.

The first cartoon, I think, pretty much mirrors my thoughts on the subject, and how I felt going to public schools:

That should keep some thinking people busy for a little while, and it should irk some people who don't actually want to think about the subject.

- John

Currently listening to:
U Don't Dans 2 Tekno Anymore - Alabama 3 (A3)
Villa-Lobos - Study No. 1 in E Minor - Andres Segovia
Orion - Zombi (from SXSW 2006 compilation)
Bullet Proof - Alabama 3 (A3) - What a great cut!
Low Life - The Police
Alice - The Sisters of Mercy
The Trees - Rush